How To Stop cats fighting with each other

How to stop cats fighting

How To Stop Cats Fighting With Each Other

Tips To Stop Cats Fighting


Use FELIWAY Friends to help restore harmony between cats

  • Clinically proven to help reduce signs of tension or conflict between cats
  • Sends “harmony messages” to help cats get along
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Follow living together “golden rules”

  • Each cat must have his own food bowl, water bowl, litter box, scratching post
  • Your cats’ “dining rooms” and “bathrooms” need to be separated. Make sure each of your cats has his own space

Conflict management

  • No punishment!
  • It would reinforce conflict

If conflicts cause signs like urine spraying or scratching, also use FELIWAY CLASSIC

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We recommend:

FELIWAY Friends Diffuser

Plug in where your cats spend most of their time continuously for at least 30 days. You may need 2 diffusers if they spend time in different rooms.

FELIWAY Classic Diffuser

If conflicts cause scratching or peeing, also use FELIWAY Classic.

Are My Cats Playing or Fighting?

Cats are naturally solitary animals and are not designed to live in close social groups.  Cat’s can be friends especially if they have grown up together from kittens but most of the time cats will just tolerate each other and any signs of conflict can be very subtle.  

You need to be able to recognise your cat’s body language.

If you think you can recognise cat conflict signs take our quiz:


Cat fighting and playing can look sometimes very similar!  If your cats are just playing they will be silent, with gentle biting, retracted claws, and chasing both ways.

So if your cats are biting seriously, with their claws out and you hear screams, they are not best friends! Also if chasing is only in one direction this is another sign.

More subtle signs of conflict include: staring at each other, blocking others pathways and hiding away.

Why Do Cats Fight?

The usual cause of conflict is competition for resources such as food bowls, water bowls, litter trays and scratching posts.  So give each cat their own set of resources and put them in separate areas to avoid tension caused by competition (Remember, you can put them on different levels, one on the floor and higher up). To find out even more see our article on why cats fight?

How To Help Cats Get Along Together?

Also when there are signs of conflict or tension between your cats, it will not resolve with time.

You need to act now as cats do not reconcile after conflict. Essentially cats find it hard to forgive and forget.

Using FELIWAY FRIENDS will help your cats get along and live together in harmony. Use several diffusers if cats use different rooms.

See our article on the 7 tips to help cats get along together.

Introducing Cats To Each Other

Are you considering getting another kitty? Then it is vital to get the first meeting right as this can set the mood for their future relationship.

This is so important we have written and article on it called 7 Steps On Introducing Cats Together. Follow this and your cats should be happy together.